Range
Colloquially,
tznius is
associated with sexual restraint and more specifically dress. When
pressed,
however, most people will admit tznius goes deeper
than that. Tznius
is, admittedly, something that should affect the character of the
person
beneath the physical limitations established; it should keep people
from
showing off where, and in front of whom, it is inappropriate to do so.
While
this attributes to tznius jurisdiction over more
than just specific
activities, it does not extend greatly the number of activities
associated with
tznius. This approach expands the reach of tznius
by applying an
already set definition of tznious to different
levels of existence. But
it is possible to extend the range of physical activities associated
with tznius
by expanding the definition of tznius itself.
- See
T.B. Brachot 62a, where a braita
is
quoted claiming one is not called tznua unless they
are a tznua in
the bathroom. See “Hagaot V’Chadoshot”
of Rav Horowitz, who
explains that this is referring even to a person who is already a
tznua
in sexual manners. He further explains that the proper bathroom
behavior being
referred to includes being quiet and alone. (In ancient Rome bathrooms
were not
private, but social gathering places. Even in modern times, one could
question
the use of urinals.) This tznius behavior, though
not necessarily
sexual, is still focused upon concealing one’s body from
another.
- See
Rambam, Hilchot Daot 5:6. The Rambam tells
us about the extra tznius customs of chachamim.
Included in this
list is not removing clothing earlier than necessary when using the
bathroom.
We can assume that this is even though these chachamim
are alone at the
time. Here, the need for covering the body does not result because
another
person would otherwise see nakedness. For whom, or for what purpose,
did the chochamim
take upon themselves this stringency?
- See
the Shulchan Arach, Orach Chaim 2:1. Here
the idea of covering one’s body even when alone is discussed
not as a
stringency but as normative halachik practice. See
the Mishna Brurah
on this halacha. He states explicitly that this halacha
is
concerned with tznius. He also makes a distinction
between tznius
action that is required when one is alone and tznius
action that is
required because one is in front of others.
- See
T.B. Brachot 8b. Rabban Gamliel says there
that for three things he loves the Persians: they are tznouin
in the way
they eat, the way they use the bathroom and in sexual manners. The Ben
Yehuyeday gives two explanations as to what it means to be tznius
in
the their way of eating. One is that the Persians ate in private so
that the
sight or smell of the food wouldn’t cause someone insatiable
desire for that
food. This connects tznius to any situation where
one is sensitive to
the desires of another. His second explanation is that the Persians
discouraged
overeating and gluttony. This explanation is more a kin to the Rambam.
The tznius
behavior is self-inclosed; the value being taught in this case is not
as much
sensitivity to the desires of others, as it is self-awareness, perhaps
sensitivity to self.
What these examples show is that
there exists a broader
definition of tznius than the normative definition
of tznius,
either as it is understood technically or as a character trait. Tznius,
even on the surface, has diverse ends; actions associated with it have
possibly
more than one goal in mind. In designating the range of tznius it is
important to question not only how and when tznius can or should
apply,
but also to question what the aim of tznius
is. As
one’s definition of tznius
expands, tznius will find greater jurisdiction
in the realm of character
development, but equally, and perhaps more surprisingly, in the realm
of
action.
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