5757 - #22, 23
T.B. Yoma 9b informs us that the First Beit HaMikdash was destroyed because of violations of the three cardinal sins of Judaism: avoda zara, gilui arayot and shefichat damim (idolatry, incest/adultery and murder). The Second Beit HaMikdash, though, is indicated as being destroyed solely because of one failing: sinat chinum. As such, the gemara argues that we must understand the evil of sinat chinum to be equal to the combined evil of the above three cardinal sins. In light of the fact that the exile that followed the destruction of the First Temple lasted only 70 years while our present exile is still ongoing, the argument can further be made that sinat chinum is even worse. What, though, is sinat chinum?
Sinat chinum is usually translated as causeless or baseless hatred. Literally the term means "free hatred" and so the general translation: it is hatred that is free, that just flows without cause. The Talmud, though, specifically ties, to this term, the notion of hiding one's hatred. Indeed, seforim such as Kad Hakemach1 and Ahavat Yisrael,2 connect sinat chinum to the transgression of hating a fellow Jew in one's heart,3 which is understood by many, including Rambam, Mishneh Torah, Hilchot De'ot 6:5,6, as specifically applying when one maintains hatred hidden, solely in one's heart. It would seem to be the hiding of one's hatred, not the lack of reason for the hatred, that is the basis of sinat chinum. Yet, the language of this term, literally "free hatred", would seem to present no support for this understanding.
The above equation of the Talmud also demands contemplation. Many simply understand the gemara as asserting that the concern for the ethical, for the relationship between man and man, should override the concern for the ritual, for the relationship between man and G-d.4 Thus hatred among people is deemed worse than even the breach of the three cardinal sins.5 Yet included among these three cardinal sins is the greatest violation of another human being: murder.6 Clearly, the violations preceding the destruction of the First Temple included transgressions bein adam l'chaveiro and with murder, there must have been hatred and enmity.7 It is not sina, hatred, that is the reason for the Second Temple's destruction but specifically sinat chinum, a certain type of hatred. Furthermore, as the gemara explains, this is a hatred that can also be accompanied by good deeds and proper conduct between individuals.8 What is this unique type of sina and why is it so problematic?
An investigation of the command, lo tisnah et achicha bilvavecha, "do not hate your brother in your heart," reveals a disagreement among the commentators as to the exact definition of this command. As mentioned, Rambam defines a violation as occurring when one maintains this hatred hidden, in one's heart. As such, a violent act against another, while forbidden for other reasons, since it reveals this hatred does not involve a violation of this specific mitzvah. Shiltot D'Rav Achai Gaon, Shilta 27, though defines the command as meaning "even in one's heart". As such, a violent act motivated by hatred would also violate this command. Rambam's view would seem to represent the majority voice, yet, the sources from Chazal seem to be contradictory. While clearly there are sources that stress the specific evil of hidden hatred -- when one acts as a friend while really being an enemy9 -- there are other sources that clearly point to a violation of lo tisnah even when the hate is revealed.10
amitecha, rebuke your neighbour. As Ramban explains, if all hatred is forbidden, then this second part of the verse simply constitutes another commandment. Yet, it is one verse and as such Ramban agrees with Rambam that the combined command of the verse is: do not hate your neighbour in your heart but rebuke him and inform him of your feelings. It is hiding the hatred that is the verse's focus.
BeDerech Tovim 7:11, note 15, though, explains that even according to the Shiltot, it is possible to see the verse as one connected command: do not simply hate but act correctly upon your hate, inform your neighbour of your feelings and correct the misdeed. A close reading of Rambam, Sefer Hamitzvot, Lo Ta'aseh 302 actually indicates that this approach can be incorporated in Rambam's view as well. The issue is not whether the hate is hidden or not but rather how the hate is directed. The violation according to Rambam occurs not only if someone acts as a friend when really an enemy but even when it is clear that there is enmity. The problem of lo tisna is not acting upon the hate: not informing the other of your feelings. While an act of violence yields other transgressions, it does not constitute a violation of lo tisna in that the hate is communicated. The Shiltot, though, demands not only communication but correct communication thus an act of violence still represents a violation of lo tisna.
Sinat chinum, thus, is not causeless hatred but rather purposeless hatred. The concern is not why we hate -- its cause -- but rather what we do with the hate -- our response. It is "free hate" because it lacks direction. In Part Two, we will investigate why this is such a great evil.
The concern of the Torah in the commandment of lo tisna, not to hate a fellow Jew in one's heart,1 is not the cause of the hate but rather the response to the hate. As indicated by the command of hoche'ach tochi'ach, to rebuke your neighbour,2 one is not allowed to simply hide one's hate but must communicate this hate to the other person.3 It is how one acts when feeling hatred that is the essence of this mitzvah. In connecting the command of lo tisna with the concept of sinat chinum, we can conclude that the correct translation of this concept is not "baseless hatred" but rather "purposeless hatred". It is not the source of the hatred, its lack of reason, that marks the extreme evil of sinat chinum but rather our response to the hatred, its lack of purpose and direction. Hate ultimately is an emotion arising within the human being, sometimes with clear cause and sometimes without; it a natural consequence of human existence. As with all the lessons of Torah, it is how we respond to the general existence of mankind that marks the Jew.
A review of the literal translation of sinat chinum actually seems to support a translation of "purposeless hatred". Literally, the term means "free hatred". What does it mean when something is free? When receiving something for free, a person acquires an object without undertaking any responsibility. Acquisition of an object usually does mean the acceptance of a responsibility, i.e. one has to pay. Acquisition for free does not mean that there was no reason for the acquisition - a gift often has a reason - but that the acquisition created no responsibility. The mitzvah of lo tisna ultimately informs us that the feeling of hatred demands a response; the feeling creates a responsibility to act, as prescribed by Torah, in reaction to this feeling of hatred. Sinat chinum is, thus, a "free hatred", a hatred so vile that it does not foster in us this Torah-demanded responsibility to act.
Hatred is ultimately the human emotional reaction to that which offends us and, as such, in itself, hatred is neither good nor bad. The nature of the stimulus which causes us to hate, which offends us, obviously is a factor in our determination of whether the hatred is acceptable or not. We are indeed called upon to hate evil.4 The mitzvot of lo tisna and choche'ach tochi'ach, though, further inform us that the determination of hate as positive or negative is also dependent on how we respond to the hate. To be positive, our emotion of hate must also demand of us that we confront evil and attempt to correct the wrong. Remarkably, in that process, we also gain knowledge of the true enemy, the true nature of the offensive stimulus, and the essence of the hate itself also changes.
Malbim, Vayikra 19:17 points out that rebuke is only possible when the one rebuking is also willing to receive rebuke. The process of rebuke is ultimately a dynamic one; the interchange is not one way but flows in both directions.5 As we challenge our neighbour who has offended us, he or she will respond: perhaps admitting their wrong, perhaps justifying their actions, perhaps challenging our critique. Only one who in turn can accept rebuke will allow the dynamics of this process to unfold to the greatest extent possible. And the only way that can be achieved is in recognition that the enemy is not the person but evil - the evil within others and the evil within oneself. Choche'ach tochi'ach is not just a call to confront evil, it is a charge to recognize the true nature of evil and to accept the commitment to fight it in all of its manifestations, including within oneself. The hate is transferred from the person to the evil itself -- and as the evil is defeated through knowledge and growth, the hate subsides.
As presented in T.B. Brachot 10a, Rabbi Meir, in response to attacks by a band of thieves, prayed for their destruction. His wife Bruria informed him that he should curse their actions not them. Rabbi Meir agreed and prayed for them to repent, for their evil actions to be destroyed, and in the end, the thieves repented. Maharsha explains that the prayer for the thieves to repent only worked because Rabbi Meir included himself in that prayer, he prayed for himself also to repent. The initial response of hate is usually directed against another individual. Yet, another individual is not the true offensive stimulus that we are encountering; it is the evil action, it is evil itself
that offends. Hate is obviously wrong if it is caused by good, if we are offended by righteousness and correct behaviour. Yet, hate can also be problematic even when initiated by that which is truly offensive. Lo tisna and choche'ach tochi'ach cause us to transfer our hate from the person to the evil itself - and through the process and new joint effort to defeat evil, the powerful emotion of hate, only positive when it is temporary and motivating direct action, subsides. Sinat chinum, though, is a hate that insists on gluing the focus to the person. It is furthermore a hate that is stoked, that the individual continues to feed. It is a hate that challenges lo tisna and choche'ach tochi'ach themselves. Ultimately, sinat chinum with its focus on the person to be hated, veers one away from the true enemy -- evil itself -- because its goal is not the defeat of evil but the protection of self.
Rabbi Shimshon Raphael Hirsch, Horeb 2:33 categorizes the sins that led to the destruction of the Second Temple as "self-seeking". One of the great tragedies of religion is that it can create self-righteousness as individuals use their observance6 to project themselves as closer to the Deity. For self-righteousness to exist, though, there must always be an object of comparison, the one that I am better than. Maharsha explains that in the time of the Second Temple, cliques were formed - there were my friends and there were my enemies. Evaluation was comparative and so evolved sinat chinum - to gain value in myself, there had to be the other that I hated.
Choche'ach tochi'ach ultimately challenges this concept. In the dynamics of proper tocha'cha, all individuals join together in fighting the true enemy, evil - within oneself as well as within the other. Humanity is joined in fighting this enemy. The one who cannot receive rebuke and, as such, cannot properly give it, the one who violates lo tisna, though, wishes to maintain the other individual as the object of hate. Humanity is divided. The goal is not to lead the individual into a confrontation with evil but rather to maintain the individual's self-perception as better than the other. In fact, correct action upon the hate is avoided because it may lead to self-critique. Is it no wonder why sinat chinum is so vile?
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Notes (Part One)
1 Rabbeinu Bachya, Kad HaKemach, "Sinat Chinum".
2 Rabbi Yisrael Meir Kagan (the Chafetz Chaim), Kuntras Ahavat Yisrael in Kol Kitvei Chafetz Chaim Hashalem, volume 1.
3 Vayikra 19:17.
4 This argument is deemed to be supported by the stress various commentators place on idolatry in regard to the destruction of the first Temple. See, for example, the above noted Kad HaKemach, including Rabbi Chavel's notes #16 and "Evel", #120.
5 Within this argument, reference is also made to Maharal, Chiddushei Aggadot, Gittin 55b. As we shall see, the reduction of this comparison to the issue of the ethical versus the ritual, of concern for bein adam l'chaveiro, the relations between man and man, versus the concern for bein adam l'Makom, the relation between man and G-d, is just simplistic.
6 See, further, Rambam, Mishneh Torah, Hilchot Rotze'ach 4:9.
7 The argument can also be made, based upon the gemara in Yoma, that, in fact, it was the positive aspects of the relationship between the Jewish People and G-d, bein adam l'Makom, that shielded the nation from greater tragedy as a result of the destruction of the first Temple. See, further, Maharsha, T.B. Shabbat 139b.
8 Indeed, if the problem with sinat chinum is simply that it leads to incorrect behaviour between individuals, which in the extreme would include shfichat damim, murder, then the violations of murder in the first Temple period, by definition, must compare to the sinat chinum of the second Temple period.
9 Our gemara in Yoma clearly supports this view. See also Maharsha. The classic source for the extreme evil in acting as a friend to someone when really you feel enmity, is Bereishit Rabbah 84:9 which praises Yosef's brothers for being honest about their feelings although it still does critique the hatred itself.
10 See T.B. Nedarim 65b; T.B. Sotah 3a.
Notes (Part Two)
1 Vayikra 19:17.
2 In the same verse of Vayikra 19:17.
3 See Insight 5757 - #22 for a further discussion on this topic.
4 See Mishlei 8:13. See also T.B. Pesachim 113b.
5 See, also, Ramban, HaEmek Davar, Meshech Chachmah on this verse.
6 Note how T.B. Yoma 9b states that the people were involved in Torah, mitzvot and gemilat chassidim.
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